-Wednesday, December 8, 2010-4:18 PM Y
Updates time! My life since 4 nov revolves around my dad. November was the month that everything came crashing down..things started to become realistic. It was the time when dad's health became like a roller coaster: from stroke to cant swallow cant eat to stroke to cant talk to cant walk to now totally on bed. Everything happened too fast in a month that it was a bit unbelievable..cos everything was fine before then. He could still eat by himself very slowly a few mouthfuls, could still walk within the room though he was already in diapers then. He could still reject my help with his diapers when mum went out.
Currently he sleeps more than anything else. We no longer need to carry him from bed to wheelchair, from wheelchair to bed. This tiring process which cease starting from this week cos he feels pain when we transfer him. ok..save me from all the back pain i experienced since 3 weeks ago.. but everyday means that the day is just getting nearer and nearer. Two days ago, Dr keh came again cos dad's neck and right hand was too stiff that we cant turn him and change him. She managed to massage and rub his arm such that he loosened up. That was very good. However i realise that the more i exercised and massage his limbs, the more sleepy he felt and the louder he snore..haha.. very cute.t But on hindsight it just prove that every action by us requires him to exert much more energy. Also he is breathing deeper now..lungs also accumulating phlegm. Hmm.. so shld i continue to move his hands and legs.. i also dunno.
This period of time also makes me feel that my hubby is so important to me. He pops by to my place after work almost everyday..buys dinner and lunch (if he's on leave). Ahma likes him very much too, always cooking his share of any soup hahaas. So looking forward to 16 aug next year.. we're gonna have our solemnization on our 3rd anniversary. I'll be Mrs Desmond Yao legally..hehe although not recognized in Christ yet.. but yep.. we'll definitely have church wedding and dinner before collection of keys to our new flat.
Till then..:)