-Monday, December 20, 2010-12:16 AM Y
16Dec thurs settled Dad's 'tomb' in the St Anne columbarium. Now every sunday i can go greet him. Heeeehee. In the evening had church penitential service. I made confession to priest. Mainly sins of my negligence during caregiving for dad..
I'll just assume dad forgave me for spraining his ankle on 30 nov. since that nite itself i asked if he could forgive me.. he cried...wellss...
17 dec fri: baby finally did his wisdom tooth extraction after dragging for almost 5 days cos he wanted to be by my side through the whole wake and funeral. He did a surgery at mount e hospital to extract 4 teeth in the end then inpatient for a night. I spent the whole night taking care of him. i even have my own bed..it's like a hotel stay. lol..
18dec sat: The check out timing for the night was 11am so we slept till 8am when the nurse came in.. Baby was given porridge as breakfast while mine was American style - 2 croissant with jam!went home.. shack...as i didnt sleep well for the night. It's after all not my bed.. and i needa get used to baby's snores.:p I went home and rest then at night went to his place to be with him. baby get well soon ya? love u.
19dec sun: omg i ve never been so srewed up before. As the 730 am choir needed help, lydia and i agreed that she would play the 730 one while i would play the usual 9am mass. However i overslept the entire mass and only woke up when lydia called when the mass was over. I woke up with a shock! Lydia and dom went for mc breakfast thus she only played from offertory onwards.. the entrance and responsorial psalm were acapella...
First time in my life i made such a boo boo. lol. They didnt blame me..but i just felt bad. It was purely oversleeping on my side.. not because my dad passed away.. This was what they thought.. but will i be so irresponsible??
The afternoon was spent in Ah ma house as usual. But today was some big celebration where uncles and aunties bring lots of meat.It was ahma's birthday on 20dec. And it was also dad's 7th day. Ah ma was totally unkeen in celebrating her birthday..that s so understandable. She cried.. i knew why.
In the evning was christmas carolling concert at Nativity church, organised by chinese choir. It was a fantastic night of songs.. but again brings back memories cos last year 5 of us attended together..haizz.. welcome back to reality and stop dreaming.
A fresh new week tmr. Mum wants a christmas getaway after so much had happened. Probably indonesia where my uncle can be our tour guide. lol but our passports all expired and haven even renew yet. Tmr im going for phototaking. See how things go..
Till then.